Love And Marriage
As I’ve found out over time, both spouses have very different needs that need to be met, in order to have a healthy marriage.
As I’ve found out over time, both spouses have very different needs that need to be met, in order to have a healthy marriage.
When it comes to our kids, they need to be onboard with obeying both of their parents and not just one. They should not be disobeying what one parent is saying and running to their other parent in disregard to his/her needs.
Counseling is an option when our marriage is on the rocks. This is especially true if your spouse is willing to go down this road. Re-courting our spouse also helps.
To be clear about what Jesus said, when speaking to the Sadducees, our marriages do not last past death.
While dating, we respect the other person enough to keep sexual intimacy in marriage. This love and respect continue in marriage.
Jesus is the only one who can save our marriage. His presence alone will bring the love that we are missing now.
To all men and women, understand that if you have an addiction to pornography, it will not get any better in marriage.
Mormons teach a false doctrine that says that eternal marriage was given to Adam and Eve, but as time went by it was taken from the earth.
There is a reason why men and women get married and start a family on their own. It is not just because they love each other, but because this is how it was meant to be from the beginning of time.
The Mormon Church teaches that people can be married for time and all eternity. Meaning their marriage will continue after this life.
Tell your spouse how beautiful they are, on a daily basis. Learn of Solomon when he said, “behold, thou art fair, my love; behold, thou art fair; thou hast doves’ eyes.”
My question is, if you feel like the love in your marriage is over or dormant right now, wouldn’t it be great if those trying times were over?
Men and women are so blessed to find a spouse that loves the Lord and get married. These types of people don’t come every day and we are so grateful.
As Jesus’s love comes into a person’s life, everything changes. Not only is our relationship with Him increased but our relationship with our spouse is also elevated like never before.
Only Jesus can help there to be peace and love in your home. Without Him, there is often contention and unnecessary grief.
The Bible teaches that women are to respect their husbands, as men love their wives. In so doing, we do this unto the Lord.
It takes three to have a good marriage and to have children raised up correctly. Marriages crumble and fall because the key person, being God, is missing with both, or one of the spouses. Paul taught, “wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. Husbands, love your wives, and do not be harsh with them.” (Colossians 3:18,19) A divided household, when it comes to a person’s disbelief, causes many unnecessary arguments and contention. Even kids are affected in a very bad way. In this situation, children are not raised in the Lord most times. Children have to make a choice in what to believe in and how to live their lives, since their parents were not inline in how they were raised. So if their mother hardly ever prays or reads the Bible, their children most likely won’t also. If she listens to or watches worldly things, her children will most likely do the same. Even if the dad prays often, reads the Bible daily, and watches and listens to faith-inspired content and music, the same kids may begin to dislike or hate the same things. The result is them telling their father to be quiet and use his headphones.
Paul taught, “be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?” (2 Corinthians 6:14) So what happens to children that are part of a divided family? As they move out of the house, going to church will not be a priority. What they watch and listen to will be worldly. So can marriages last like this? Unfortunately, most of them don’t. They can continue for a very long time, but without God guiding them both the constant arguing will most likely cause the marriage to end in a divorce. So the cure for any marriage is for the couple to come in unison with God. To teach things that come from the Lord. To listen to and watch things of God on a constant basis. To go to church each week together as a family. Then, the same children will choose to also raise their children in the same way. All children may not turn out this way but if the majority does, then praise God. Therefore, only with God leading the marriage is the way to have a healthy marriage, and have children raised up in the Lord also. Amen.
The teaching in Christianity that says there is no marriage in heaven for believers comes from Jesus’s own mouth.
As wives submit to their husbands as unto the Lord, we love them the same way we love God. And we don’t let anger jeopardize this.
One day, there will be a marriage ceremony with Jesus. We will be there, who are His saints. Be ready for that day.